hi deb - wow - once again we are in the same place with these wonderful men of ours

nothing to it but ride it out with as much aplomb as possible. i agree with tc - mystery works. i find ow now irrelevant, because his emotions are no longer there. it is a combination of pride (if i really break it off it is admitting that the whole thing was a big mistake, waste of time) guilt, and whatever else.

hang in there, and ease off the pursuit already Slowly

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