OK, more shameless pursuit here, I just sent this email to H: "I just wanted to tell you I've been thinking of you and hoping you're having a good day. Actually, I've been thinking of you a lot and thinking how much I enjoy the time I get to spend with you. It really is a treasure to me. I know sometimes I can smother you, and I'm always afraid of doing that, so I pull back and probably pull back too far....I guess I'm not very good at finding the middle ground. but anyway, there truely is no place I'd rather be than with you, regardless of where that is or what's going on."
So, we shall see what happens. I don't know. I havent heard much from him today, and i'm always suspicious he's hot & heavy into emails to OW....ah well, fighting fire with fire has worked pretty well so far.