Hi dfb, I know you're right, I tend to dissect every little detail of interactions, and it's usually more accurate to take the big picture into account. I guess i don't see enough change if I focus on the big picture is probably part of the reason...the other part is plain ol' obsessiveness....
right now I'd have to say I'm getting plenty of good sex out of it , plus H does the laundry ; I certainly have plans to up the ante when the time comes, however. I keep remembering the story about turning the heat up slowly on a pot of water with a frog in it.
, plus H does the laundry 
; I certainly have plans to up the ante when the time comes, however. I keep remembering the story about turning the heat up slowly on a pot of water with a frog in it. 
