last night when H got home, he was wearing his ring again. that is a comfort to me, because I was so afraid it was going to be reburyed in the basket....I guess even if he takes it off when he is around ow, the fact that he's wearing it most of the time is a significant change, and he has to know that it influences my perception of how things are between us.

H was pleasant when he got home (yesterday was his long day)....we chatted and ate together....went to bed a little early, and H initiated ML, as he had promised in his email about "redneck time"....H said he'd been thinking about it all day which made me happy.....this morning was rushed but pleasant enough....I've only had one email, a reminder of an errand he asked me to do, but he did say thanks for it.

I'm thinking I'm going to try to finish the letter to him today and post it here for input....

and try to come up with some creative ideas for puruit/becoming OW to him....

been around awhile!