I put a card in H's lunch today, it had to little bears on a moon in a starry sky, something about the colors of love, I wrote a note about the card reminding me of him...
then I got this email from him:
Quote: Deb; Thanks for the card in my lunch sack. It was nice, after the morning documentation dump I needed that! I do appreciate your thoughts and kindness. D.
I emailed him back:
Quote: I'm glad you liked it. I was worried that it was too mushy and almost took it out...but it is sincere. and I sure wish we had more "fun time/down time" to just veg out together. makes me long for winter. I'm thinking of you (without a red neck, but things could go there!) Deb
and then I got an email from him suggesting some "red-neck time" tonight and some interesting activity.
I'm thinking that this is a very positive response to my beginning efforts at shameless pursuit. Do you all read it this way? it's very unusual for him to say anything very personal in emails at work, and I'm thinking that even if he's working in the same building w/OW, he's at least thinking, however briefly, of the possibility of sex with me tonight!
I'm starting to think flirting really IS the wasy to go with him.......i guess i need to just throw caution to the wind, get over thinking of it as adolescent, have fun, and see what happens...I learned to do that with sex recently, so I guess I can with flirting...