Hi Slowly...I've been thinking of you, although I havent posted to you I've been following your sitch. The One Who Thinks He's Slick has never told me the tone of his contact w/OW has changed, but it is obvious to me that it has.....back in the "old days", he didnt look like he'd been crying his eyes out or was furious most of the time.....well, I guess he has told me it's changed, after the last "break up" he said how she says she loves him but theres' always some string attached.....and how she can give the biggest a$$chewing he's ever had.....YAY OW! you go girl!!!!....
I sure hope you are right about him not wanting to look like a bastard to her. Knowing H, I suspect that is a lot of it....