Hi Pamila....I agree that it's way past time for Totally Confused to change her name!!!!!LOL! since you asked, I'm officially "Debra", I used to go by "Debbie", then decided that seemed a little childish, and Debra sounded kind of formal, so I go most of the time by Deb...when I started on the bb, I was so blown away, that I didnt even think of using anything other than my name and initials... I have to chuckle, though, as this points out that maybe my H pays more attention to me than i think. Last spring we met new staff at S's school, and H introduced me as "my wife, Debra"...so he noticed I started addressing myself differently.