long time no speak. Nothing much to add. Continue to focus on the positives and the baby steps. I am now truly enjoying my 'single' life, having fun by myself and let it shine when my H comes to see me and the kids. I am pretty much letting go of the sitch while continuing to DB my H back home. I know I've said this many, many times, but we continue to fall and back up again, arent we?? And never tired of it!
Sometimes the very thing you're looking for is the one thing you can't see..