hi Pam, I know you are right about the detaching and moving on being a better place to be...it seems like I get to that place for a short time and then I fall out of it....mostly because my heart gets softened by something nice H does, or when we have a good time together...then it's like I have to start all over again. I guess the secret is to always have low/no expectations, but I've not gotten the knack of that.
