Deb, I totally agree with Debra. As I was reading it, I was picturing the entire time that they were notes to himSELF.
As if he was saying to himself, Why should Deb accept 50 cents for the dollar she is putting into me? etc.
It is pretty jumbled up so it was hard to tell. In the meantime, it might be best to proceed from that angle and act as if those notes were to himself on how to patch up his marriage.
Incidentally, when you posted earlier about him not wanting to go on his walks that was my very first thought--he is trying to make a break with OW. Those walks either included her in some fashion or he has come to mentally connect them with her. Either way, he wants a break from it to regroup and figure out where to go. I think he is at a major crossroads and you have a lot of power right now in assisting him in his journey to do the right thing.
Keep on keepin' on, Red! You are doing great.
Now, get on out there and have a repeat of last weekend and make me jealous.
