I'm sorry that you had such an awful night/am and I'm sorry that I wasn't around for you.
I can totally relate as this is how my H would often react to something I had said or done...."I want a D!" I dont' know why they do this but I think you handled yourself beautifully. You didn't react or argue with him.
Quote: God. What a mess. Or, what a stepping stone...
I read somewhere on the bb that things happen at the right time for a reason and that a crisis is often a breakthru. So, this MAY very well be a stepping stone. You have been wondering about his on-line habits for a while and had never said anything. Sometimes we get to the point where we just have to "get it out" or "act out" a little to get it out of our system and move on.
Quote: My h found out 3 years ago he has a chronic kidney ailment. At the time of his A and the bomb he was in a lot of pain. It got a lot better over the last two years -- it only occasionally flares up -- but it seems like it's been bad the last few days..
I'm sorry that your H is not feeling well and that perhaps he took it out on you. But, it's wonderful how he came back, apologized and asked for your help.
You are both under a lot of stress....work, school, DB'g, re-building a M, baby-talk, illness.....its' only normal for one (or both) to wig out a bit from time to time.
