Hey Minnie and LL and KAW and Pam...thanks for the visit!

LL -- You're right on (and KAW, I think LL identified "plan B" for me!) -- use the e-mail for ME, to chart what works and what doesn't, etc. NOT as a stepping stone for a conversation (R talk!! ) with h!

Had a good weekend but busy. We stayed in Friday night (Sox game!). Saturday I ran some errands in the AM while h did homework. We watched the Sox debacle in the afternoon. Sat night we went for a "beer tasting" at the house of a friend -- the folks that h used to work with -- I let myself get a little emotional (inside!) because ow used to be part of that "group" --

Yesterday h was at a charity walk all day so I bustled around in the AM and then went to my neice's bday party -- it was good to see her but it's always a mixed blessing to be around the rest of my family...

positives? well, h is awesome had some great relaxing time last night -- lots of hand holding and snuggling on the couch. also, I came home from my errands on Saturday and was feeling a bit down...I told him and he said "oh, I have just the thing for you...close your eyes". I did. He said "open them" and when I did he was standing in front of me and he said "hey, you're married to THIS GUY" How could I not be enchanted by THAT?

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.