Wouldn't it be nice if they could tell what plan "B" is?
... but I agree with the gist of it ... I think you're going need to take some more time to mull it over. In doing so, the light bulb may go on over head as to what Plan "B" should be. Start by simply asking is Plan "A" going to bring your closer to your goals and your H or is it opening an old wound rather that's better left scabbed over?