The miracle is this....

[sage]

Slowly -- I'm so glad you "got" my positive! I'm always psyeched when h offers up a critical opinion or disagrees with me! I figure if he can't tell me he's unhappy with the soup, how will he tell me he's unhappy with something in our M?

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Positives from yesterday:

1. I called h after he left me a message yesterday afternoon. He was kind of strange (maybe busy?) when I got him...the positive was that I didn't personalize it AND he called back in a few minutes to tell me "ILY"

2. We made dinner together and had a cozy night hanging out on the couch.

3. I mentioned to h that I wanted to try to cut my spending for the next few months to build up a $ reserve for xmas presents and a trip to NYC. He said "Let's track our expenses!" which is something I've proposed (and we've done) in the past when things seem to be amok. It's AWESOME that he suggested it. It helps me to see him as concerned/responsible for the $ side of our m and it alleviates the "need" for me to suggest it (or not suggest it and worry about it instead!)

Sage