1. I got a bunch of praise from my boss yesterday for the dual role I had been playing. I e-mailed about it to h and he sent me the cutest invitation to a celebration dinner.
2. When I got home from school h had done a ton of cleaning up in the kitchen. Lately I've been the one doing the dishes, laundry, litter boxes most often. it hasn't been like "pre-bomb" when I would have been angry about that...but two nights ago h said "please, leave the dishes in the sink in the morning and I'll do them at night" -- letting me know that he DOES want to help out...I've just been pre-empting him by getting to stuff first. REMINDER to SELF -- LET h have the opportunity to do things!
3. h told me that he didn't like a particular kind of soup I had bought him. Don't know if this makes sense to anyone but me but having him TELL me how he FEELS about something (particularly if it's negative) is AWESOME!
Sage
PS Ms. Pam -- where is your new thread??? hint, hint
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
Don't know if this makes sense to anyone but me but having him TELL me how he FEELS about something (particularly if it's negative) is AWESOME!
