Hi Sage - I'm hoping errand night went well - at some point I'm going to have to pluck the courage to suggest something similar to NG.
And I have to say, given the intense level of personal transformation we are putting ourselves through, 18 months does not seem like a long time at all - plus the fact that H does not seem ready to talk to you yet - there is only so much you can do on your own
But as always, I guess we keep busy, walk these board and work on us.... Slowly