arrgh. just lost my post (you can assume it was brilliant lol! )
Had a good night last night -- h had lots of studying so he concentrated on that while I read a bit, did some stuff around the house. We cooked dinner together (spaghetti with pesto) and then he went back at it. watched a bit of the sox game together then off to bed.
I think he was concerned that I would feel neglected or peeved that he had to study but I didn't feel that way at all -- tried to reassure him of that. In fact, I like having the time to read or putter during the week...I think I've been less than upfront with him about my desire/need to do that sort of thing for myself, too...afraid, I suppose, that he would view it as my not wanting to spend time with him if he were available. I guess we're both "guilty" of ASSuming the other person will feel neglected.
he has a super busy and long day today...I'm going to try to take his pulse later about whether or not I should pick up dinner or if he'll want the break of going out or if he'll want/need to do more studying. I didn't want to rush the question this AM since I suspect he'll be more clear as the day goes on...
My day looks good...I may try to leave a bit early (an hour or so) to do some stuff around the house...I'm feeling the need to throw some things away/recycle them/donate. Too much "stuff" --
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
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