Quote: I'm noticing that my h changes his mind often about "plans" -- this used to drive me insane (when I was such a control freak that everything had to be nailed down!) but it's so freeing to just say "sure, of course it's ok if we don't..." and it IS! I like this flexability stuff!
Hey, thanks to you I'm liking this too! I ALMOST freaked out last night when it was getting later and later and we weren't leaving for the driving range....but....I dropped it and enjoyed the evening. Thank you for helping me with this for the past countless months.
Quote: Whatever the reason, I swear he came in with his tail between his legs...unfortunately, it made me feel (and act) IRKED -- which was EXACTLY the reaction that he was expecting (for other reasons apparently) and EXACTLY the reaction that I didn't want to give...
I feel this sometimes as well....not as much as before though. I think you would tell me to act "as if" and not make ASSumptions about why he SEEMS to be xyz.
Off to get ready for work as I have an early mtg. Be back later.
