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I have to admit that I had a hard time (internally) asking for this...I guess because it felt "controlling" or "dictating". In truth, though, h has been very much on top of and aware for the need for "organization" and even brought up the overall topic a few weeks ago so it's not as though he wasn't primed and ready himself...I just really have a hard time asking for help from him.

BUT, I did it. And I did it in a way that was fine (direct; not a lot of emotional explanation; had already mentioned it once; not during a stressful time) and he was more than fine with it so I'm gonna stop worrying about it!

Sage



I just talked to h He said "tonight's errand night, right? I'm psyched!"

Guess the idea of walking thru Walmart holding my hand is favorable

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.