Hi Sage - Thanks, yes, this has helped enormously. Like you, I find the day to day stuff to be a non-issue. The future, well, NG and I are in so much agreement about what we want, the only fly in the ointment is the usual 'what if this happens again'. I guess keep on dbing.
And yes, I am very aware of just how open NG is being. We have always never had secrets between us, which in a strange way is why the affair has been so devastating, tho he did tell me about it very soon after it started.
