He apparently hasn't changed a bit in the past year of living with his sister and Janice.

This is the way he has handled every single thing with the divorce, besides the agreement he came over here and talked with me and worked out. Then he backed out of it after signing it and taking it to the attorneys. Of couse he changed it after we signed it.

Why, why do I keep trusting him?

Makes me mad at myself. I know he has cheated at least 3 times always with married women, he has broken up two long term marriages, he lies, he sneaks, he won't tell you anything he is going to do, just stabs you in the back whenever he gets a chance.

If you met him it doesn't show that he is that type of person it really doesn't.

Most of my friends were totally shocked to find out he was having an affair.

I don't think in the beginning even his family believed he was having an affair. I would assume by now they know differently.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"