Hi totite,

I don't suppose you have any good advice for totally getting my brain to thinking that way about David do you?

I can logically look at his behaviour and know that isn't the type of person I want to be with, but my emotions still care and miss him.

I am not sure how I change that, what I have been trying to do this weekend is really mourn him, looking at it like he died. I think it is going to be a rather slow process.

But I am determined to use the knowledge I have gained and I am not going to let this divorce do to me what the last one did.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"