Quote: I thought about him a lot and he really maybe does have problems or is just not the kind of person I always sort of saw him as being. I mean he has had 3 affairs with married women and been involved in the breakup of two long term marriages. What sort of person does that, and when the going gets tough runs to another affair? IS that a person I would want in my life? If I look at him like that and see his actions that isn't a person I want in my life.
PAM! Is that a lightbulb I see going on over your head?
You deserve so much better! You are capable of so much more! I guarantee you, five years from now you are going to be so happy and fulfilled, and you are going to look back and wonder how you ever let this relationship drag you down.
Ellie
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
