Hi dfb,

Yes, I plan not to talk to him. I can't deal with ever seeing Janice again if I can help it.

I just feel so stupid. I mean he has known all of the time and we have had silly conversations. But that is why I'm sure that he was no longer on my AIM and I always called him, well once in a while he would call me back.

I don't think he still cares. I think it was his darn conflict avoidance. He wasn't going to tell me it was final but just go along like nothing had changed, which is what he did through the whole divorce process.

He knew once it was final I wouldn't bother him again because I told him I would walk out of his life. He doesn't even know where to find us when we leave in 2 weeks.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"