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(((((Pam)))))

What an awesome close to your post. I think you've really clinched this path well, and I hope your journey is filled with positive things, and SOON!

Thanks for your very sweet post on my old thread... you are a treasure, and I thank you for the wonderful words.

Take care, sweetie!

Betsey


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Hey Pam,

This is the time to have some fun and go to the store and by a Woolie kit. You can buy a couple of shades of darker green paint (shades of SAGE - I believe ) and use the Woolie to enhance your walls. Believe me, it is soooooo easy.

I had never faux painted prior to using it and it really is easy. You can't mess it up. It even has a video to show you how to do it. You can blend the colors as much or as little as you want. Get G to help you - or your new neighbor!

What fun!

SO did you order your comforter set yet? You were lucky enough to find one that matches your vision of your bedroom - so you had better get it! How lucky was that!

Your attitude has been wonderful on the BB! You truly are moving on and getting excited about the newness in your life - new home, new friends - keep it going!


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Hi Pam, I've lurked on your threads for months, don't know if I've ever posted much, but just wanted to say I appreciate your calming influence (aka 2 x 4??? LOL) on my thread....thank you so very very much for sharing your experiences and wisdom, i know it must be hard at times.
Your house sounds so great, I really glad for you. Enjoy! you have certainly earned it!
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Hi dfb,

Thank you so much. It really helps encourage me in my journey to know that the changes I am working on are visible on the outside as well as me feeling them on the inside.


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Hi Betsey,

You are so sweet! You have been a big help with the IM's, posts and just following your threads when I could keep up with them!

I am thinking I need a new puppy. Mariah's Touch of Class, to start fresh with.

I know I don't really need a puppy! They are just so adorable and I was in the vet's office tonight and they had an adorable one out playing.

BTW: As I was driving home tonight, admitedly feeling a bit down that D didn't show up to see my pictures. I thought of you saying I am a treasure and it made me smile.


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Hi totite,

I talked to them about the color in the garage today. They would have changed it but I decided to leave it so I had a place to experiment that doesn't show.

I assume this Woolie kit is to be had at your finer local hardware stores?

No, I have decided to wait on the comforter set. I really don't want to take the mattress set with me that D slept with J on. So saving towards that instead. But, I'll get there, the journey is half the fun. Because after you get there the planning and dreaming is done!

Yes, I am excited. I just wish I wasn't also still sad at times.

Went to see my Glamour Shots tonight. They were pretty good. D had acted like he was interested in seeing them. Guess I'll never learn that he only says things like that because he thinks that is what I want to hear.

I would really just prefer respect and honesty out of him at this point. I have decided that is what he is going to receive from me. I don't mean rude or hurtful, just honest.


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Hi Deb,

If I can help someone here without pulling myself down I WANT to do so. The wonderful people on this BB have done so much for me. Probably saved my life or at least my sanity a time or too.

I don't think even as they move away and forward I will ever forget some of them and the impact they had on me. I hope if the people who had the greatest impact and spent countless hours, posting, e-mailing & IMing with me aren't disappointed that I didn't save my marriage. But I truly believe that myself has been saved and that is more important.

I don't think I could live with the say whatever I want to hear stuff, ever again in my life!!!

I truly hope something I have said has helped you in your journey.

I am excited over my house, even my 'green' aka...'Cool Sage' garage!


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Hi Pam - Just wanted to add my recognition to the others - it truly is wonderful to have you on this board

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Hi Slowly,

Thank you very much for the kind words. I won't ask why it's wonderful to have me here. Aka..entertainment value, emotional roller coaster at times, something to read, etc...


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Appliances selected!! I only got lost twice.

The glass top range was only $10 more than the standard package so I went for it!

The salesman was MUCH nicer today. I think he must have heard from several people yesterday.

This place appears to have really good prices on appliances. That always helps the selection!


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