Wildebube et al, Clues... I've been beating by brain about this for a long time. I know for sure she had at least two physical relationships with men before she knew me, and I don't know of anything out of the ordinary. One of the men, in Japan, lives near her parents and owns a cafe, but she doesn't want to see him or go to that cafe. She says they almost got married; he was quite a bit older than her. Clues ??? I'm not holding anything back that I think would elucidate. W's sister lives with us and I have, gingerly, grilled her on the subject of why she needs to sleep with the kids and why she isn't close to me, and she claims not to know anything. My MC wants very much to have a gander at her, but W will have none of it. I just don't know.