Quote: In fact, she very often started crying while I was doing oral sex on her. Perhaps I 'm not perfect, but the crying gave me pause.
Yikes! I did cry after sex once because it was so bad for me (poor guy). But I was young and it was the first time I had sex with someone after breaking up with a long-term boyfriend. I needed sympathy sex and I got some wham-bam action. Since I usually like wham-bam action, clearly the problem was my emotional state and inability to control the action due to inexperience,not my lover's skills.
I can't imagine the emotional state of a woman who would cry when her H was giving her oral. I'm trying to imagine what she might be thinking and I'm coming up blank. Did you ask her why she was crying?
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