In a weird way, my previous belief that being fat was why my wife wasn't having sex with me provided me some comfort. I falsly believed that by losing weight I could unilaterally bring my love life back.
But my wife always told me that my being fat didn't have anything to do with it and I didn't believe her. Now that I've lost all this weight, it has forced me to confront all of the other deep issues that have gotten between us.
It doesn't help that I can't get my wife to tell me what the problem is.
Tony
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
