NOPkins,

Well, if you haven't read "Divorce Busting", think you should. Think you'd get a lot out of it.

I'm surprised that you didn't get much out of "The Five Love Languages", but guess different things talk to different people. I wasn't so into the Marriage Builder's Site, but then my STBX thinks all that stuff including Michele's is stupid. He's rather closed minded.

I'm for whatever makes sense and works for you!
Really glad to see your improved situation!

Life is treating me very well. Kinda fell into a long distance R with someone that I would like to get to know a whole lot better. Just gotta get this darn D taken care of. I've been separated almost six years. That's a long time!

You take care. The best of luck to you both!

rayanne