Oh yeah...I know what you mean. My H always tries to bring our arguments around to who is right and who is wrong...I always tell him it's not about right and wrong or finding fault...most of the time I respond to his "Well who's right?!" question with "neither of us, it's just a difference we're having."...he never knows how to respond to that. Works pretty well for me. I find for us it sort of takes the "fight" out of the fight we were having...he finds it hard to fight with me, when I'm not fighting back...merely making level-headed statements :-)
