Quote: I dont' think that unless I make it plain that I will not inhabit a farce of a marriage that anything will change.
You've got that much right. I recommend you run, don't walk, to your nearest copy of Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch, and start reading. It'll help you figure out how to show your wife your not just all hat and no cattle. It'll also help YOU deal with whatever you need to deal with.
