Glad to hear that I was very tempted to do exactly the same thing with my LDH. I figured I'm not being treated like a wife/lover, so I may as well live like a roommate. I recently found out though that my LDH is vehemently against us having separate bedrooms so my moving to another room would have only caused him to be angry and feel that I was doing something to spite him. On a slightly different topic (I promise not to hijack long)...a couple of weeks ago my LDH eluded that he'd like to cut back his counseling sessions to every other week....I agreed that it would be ok...(no sense being a stickler about the frequency on that as long as he continued to go on a fairly regular basis)...for some reason though after he saw his counselor this week he's decided to continue going weekly. I was surprised at this turn of events, but I'm taking that as a positive thing. He believe he's possibly recognizing that getting past/over some of his issues may take more work than he initially expected....and I'm proud of him for being willing to do the work...that is a very loving gesture in my book

Well behaved women rarely ever make history!