I certainly do understand the logic behind moving to the other room...I encourage you to put this off as long as possible though, here's why. Moving out of the room doesn't always force someone to see your point in alienation, you could be providing her with the outlet she needs to not deal with the problems at hand and if she doesn't see a problem in your marriage you run the risk of her going on in her happy little rose-colored world thinking nothing is wrong. If you stay in the room she's forced to deal with you and the problems you've voiced to her already. That doesn't mean your bedroom has to become a battlefield though...all I'm saying is you've stated your piece to her, continue to do so in a calm loving manner and don't budge on it.
