Dave said: ------------------ Do you think I should tell her that I'm planning on a 3 week "experiment" where I will be initiating that often? ------------------
I wouldn't.
From your posts, it appears that she is willing to meet you needs, without grimacing, Find out what the two of you are made of. Don't get mad if it doesn't go well, remember, the idea is to get used to being together.
Performance anxiety is not limited to the lesser endowed, there is plenty of inexperience at multiple levels to fuel the problem. Even with my background, I am sure it would be difficult for me to play in a group again. I am out of practice performing for a crowd (and I prefer to stay that way). The melty man still tries to visit me on occasion, the only difference is practice makes perfect, so I can make him go away.
The goal of the exercise is to create intimacy with your spouse. You do this by practicing in a more relaxed environment.
Simply put - YOU WILL NEVER BE A GREAT LOVER IF YOU DON'T PRACTICE - This is true for all of us.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
