Quote: This effort to ask her to bed really is for "me" and I should just accept her willingness. Afterall, it's my EC. If I wan't to boost it, then I need to initiate. I don't know...maybe a schedule is better.
I think you're compromising. Isn't that a no-no in Schnarchland. If you initiate on a schedule and she is just willing, how much does this charge up your EC battery? How much more charged up would it be if she were to jump your bones spontaneously? You and I and every other HD on this board knows the answer. I'm pretty certain your wife knows this too.
You've been trying to be a better more attentive husband. That's great. I'm sure your wife appreciates it. I'm sure that is one of the reasons she is more "willing" to show up in bed regularly. Here's the $50,000 question. Does doing all this stuff make her want to jump your bones? What would make her want to jump your bones? Either something will or nothing will and you've got to find out because you know that's what you really want.Or maybe not. Maybe I'm projecting because passion is what I want, maybe you'll be happy as a clam just to have her "willingly" spend some time in bed with you each week.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
