Your current 2x a week is obviously giving your wife a two choice dilemma. Either she has sex with you twice a week or she has to tolerate your crabbiness.
That's exactly what she told me...almost verbatim. She said "I only have 2 choices...ML or deal with you being grumpy". I guess I need to have faith in the PM two choice dilemma. I briefly (and quietly) took her response as an indication that I'm executing PM perfectly but then a part of me wanted to help her not feel that way. I think you are right Mojo, I just need to stick to the plan.
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Is this true? Would you love to see that her "natural" frequency is once a month?
Hell no!!!!
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There has got to be a hidden "but" clause, such as "but if your natural frequency is less than desirable we'll have to come up with a new plan or I will get crabby.".
Mojo, this has been the topic of discussions a lot lately. She may see me as crabby but I've been trying to tell her that my behavior is due to the fact that I'm not feeling an EC to her...that lack of sex makes her less desirable and attractive to me. I would love to know what other options there are. Do I stop watching TV with her or something? It's really hard act happy, loving, supportive while in this state of lost EC. I can't "ignore" her...she's learned to deal with this over the past 10 years. I don't know what my options are. It all seems so "negative" and makes sexually engaging her seem weird. I'm really confused....or maybe just "fused".
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