Back to my big question. What would anyone think about me having a talk with my W where I say something like the following....

M: "Hey, I was thinking about something from our convo the other night. You had mentioned how you go into a 'panic' on Wed and Sat when you realize that the deadline is approaching etc. You also said that you feel like my grumpiness when you don't meet my frequency is essentially the same as me 'forcing' you to ML 2x a week. So I have an idea....Why don't we drop the 2x week thing and lets let it flow more naturally?"

Variation 1.
M: "I'll initiate and you can either engage me or reject in the way I described where you humbly acknowledge my request and commit to another time."

Variation 2.
M: "I'll just chill and give you space for a while. See how things go. I would love to see what your natural frequency is."


Any other ideas?

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