Dear Dave,

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But on the same token, I'm extremely hesitant to have another child in our current situation.



I can totally relate to this. When we were talking about having a second child, I was very ambivalent because, even then, I wasn't too wild about how our marriage was going. But I agreed because I, too, wanted a second child. I have absolutely no regrets.

Our preferred method of birth control, abstinance, has been 100% effective . The method of birth control you are practicing is quite likely to result in a "happy accident". I hope you are OK with that.

Tony

"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment."
Henry David Thoreau