Interesting info. Our "method" is not ideal, but it's not bad either. I never let it get to a point where I violently whip it out at the last second. The way she lays there with me is really nice. BUT (isn't there always one)...I'm working up the courage to tell my W that I want a V. This subject could be an entirely different thread. We only have 1 child...a 6 year old. We are both ambivalent about another and have come to the conclusion that we don't really care if we have one or don't. The technique we are using is not the safest but we figure (you guys are going to think we are so insane when I say this) that an accidental pregnancy would be an indicator that we *should* have another. We aren't the most religious couple, but we do believe that everything works according to an elegant randomness and that we should pay attention to "clues", "synchronicities", and "coincidences". BUT (another one). My W says that her window will close in 2 years. Mine is pretty much closed now, so I'm thinking that I should bank some seeds and get the V. This sounds so nutty. But on the same token, I'm extremely hesitant to have another child in our current situation.
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