Quote: This is interesting because this is where I went with some of my convo the other night...dangerously close to offering advice.
It's not offering advice, per se, but it's example of how you might see things going. I had to laugh because here on the DB message threads, we're alllll about offering advice. Quite dangerous, indeed!
Perhaps the tone should be "hopeful for the future" - that you have been disappointed in the past, but that the future does not have to repeat the past? I have to ask you... do you believe that your W can change your mind about her being a disappointment? Why IS she a disappointment to you?