So maybe she would benefit from the knowledge of how you would like her to say it...something along the lines of "What about ML tonight?" does not compromise her integrity (she is not saying, Oooh I want you so bad Big Daddy) but it is a clear initiation that is free from the passive aggressive sh*t that she has a tendency to dish out.
I spent about 5 minutes explaining "how" she should initiate in the future and I will continue to do so. It was the first topic in the big long convo. I said "If you decide that you are willing to ML on a certain night, do you think you can lead with at least a little seduction?...just whisper that you would like me to come up to the br in a few minutes". But that's the problem...she would be lying if she said she wanted me. Last night's initiation w clearly designed to minimize the chance of me saying "ok" but she needs to understand that after that many days, I'm going to say yes even if I'm not in the mood.
The love I'm nurturing feels like a piece of wood that is smoldering and I'm blowing on it constantly to heat it back up to point where it might grow flames. But lately I'm just getting dizzy.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
