I have not posted to your thread before but I have been lurking and following your sitch. I have recently separated and filed for a D. I did not want it but I truly feel that I have done all that I can. I would provide a link to my sitch but I do not know how.
Anyway, I have thought that you provide a good example for others here on the BB. You seem to have approached your situation with balance and reason. It appears that you have been able to maintain a warm feeling for C while being detached enough not to be devastated by the lows of the emotional roller coaster.
That being said, there is someone else on the board that I think may benefit from your unique ability to keep a mostly high PMA. A poster in "Piecing" who goes by raindeer has recently had a down turn in his sitch and I thought that perhaps you might have some insight for him.
