I think this is a time to take care of Deb. I know it is so hard with all of these questions we have in our heads, but we must learn to let things go we can not control. What would you do if you found out the notes were for her? If you can not do anything constructive about it, why worry yourself. I know easier said than done!

I will view it as a plus. At least you know what he needs. Can you just provide it without knowing who the notes are for?

Nitaf