thanks Pam....yeah, I think I'll take a warm bath when I get home, and just crawl in bed and read a little....I otta go over to midlife crisis and do a time line I guess, and see if I can get a clue about this....it's interesting, H told me about vacation time that the A had started "a year ago last week or the week before"....as I've been going over the checkbook for the last week, I'd bet the farm that I can pretty much peg it on the nose....it started the 2nd week of May 'O3. I wonder though, in hindsight, if the EA didnt start in November of 02....that's the month OW came to work here in the office next to his. and H became such a hateful, nasty grumpy person almost overnight it seems. I remember it so distinctly. We went to a football game a D's college that month--big intrastate rivalry--extended family went to the game as all, and I remember my brother asking "What's wrong w/(H)...PMS?" he was just an unreasonable bear, set off by things you had no idea about...so I wonder....
Just curious, are EA's better or worse that PA's? seems to me they'd be about the same....
