Hi Pam, I did see your itchy butt reference in the email....interesting...I would be worked up about that one too!. I know you arent picking on me...I don't take it that way...I'm just kind of down today, I think from being so tired, and really mystified by his actions in the last week or so and by the night-time scribblings....ah, well, I guess time will tell what will come....
I just read and article on I-village that said affairs last an average of 2 - 4 years --ick--but I don't know, I am clinging to the thought that this is going to burn out sooner than that...also a statistic quoted there was that 70% of married men have affairs, but only 1% actually divorce because of them....I was surprised by those #'s, don't recall the author or know how accurate they are, but found them interesting.
H did stop by my office on his way out to see if s was here, and gave me a hug and kiss - nice kiss. seemed cheerful enough, so that helps some.