yes, Pam, you are absolutely right, that is a blessing and I cant imagine how much harder it must be for those who don't have that contact...

Guess I was kind of getting the pity party rolling, and that
s not the party to be at when OW seems to be OH SO HAPPY and OH SO CHEERFUL (i think!)...most of the time...

I borrowed h's cell phone once and accidently hit her # and she sounded like a French w---e on a phone sex line when she answered....(whatever they sound like ) but the "come-on" was literally dripping from her voice from her end...

been around awhile!