So let me get this straight...

The night that H didn't sleep he was up all night scribbling notes on an envelope?

And one of the notations was life partner must exhibit reciprocity?

What did the rest of it say?

Just for the record I will stand my ground and say I would still bet $ on your H not leaving.

I am sorry that you are out of $.

I frosts me to no end that while I am living on a budget H is still supporting OW (and Himself) in the luxurious lifestyle to which he has been accustomed.

He told me that whie I was in Vegas I should go shopping and to a spa and I wanted to ask him using what/whose $, but I didn't. $ is a hugely sensitive area for him, so I just let his comments go.