Yes, TC, I have to admit that I plan to take advantage of any opportunity to "peek" at that note...there were things on there I didnt have time to read before....
as for leaving things that have to do with me where I might find them, I don't know....H had a habit earlier of leaving things, not out in the open, but just barely beneath the surface....and I would stumble on to things that just ripped my heart out....love letters from OW, "hot" emails from OW, some that talked about how "awestruck" she was to be "choosen as his partner"--I'm still puking over that one!How the reason he felt so awful because he was mourning his dead marriage and she would do it for him to spare him the pain if she could.......The devotions book on the shelf w/pictures from their trip last fall that fell out just before vacation......I could go on and on, but won't.
So, I don't know if he would leave things around where I might find them that pertain to me or not...I could never figure out why he would have such potentially volatile stuff in the house anyway, unless it was a "test"....of some sort....Oh, the One Who Thinks He's Slick....I cant for the life of me decide if he's a real gamer or just dense when it comes to women and relationships.