Thanks Holding On. It's really helpful to know what other's have seen in their sitchs....It is hard for me to comprehend, or to have any clue as to what might be going on in his head...or not going on....he is so incredibly changeable.... The week we were home alone on vacation was absolutely wonderful, and he's the one who made the comment that it was the first time since our honeymoon that we've had that kind of time together....He is the one who initiated ml so much last weekend....and I have to say he was one happy and cheerful camper....and it was great, I felt so close and safe and secure....plus had a lot of fun!!!! Now he's kind of weird and withdrawn again the last 2 days...he's been complaining of his back hurting, but I sense there's more under the surface. I guess I have to keep reminding myself that he's the one who has to fix it, I cant....
