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and I believe that he'd be avoiding/pulling away/shutting down in that dept. if he was trying to get himself out the door.....the same with his references to future plans, etc.....


I don't know about your H... but I will tell you that my H started going to bed and sleeping on his stomach right before he left. He certainly WAS NOT ML with me more and more like your H is. I just don't think he can ML with you practically ALL DAY and not feel an incredible amount for you. As you know, women need to feel loved to have sex, men have sex to feel love....

You are doing so well, Deb. If you can stop worrying so much about the ring, about OW and just go with the flow you might feel better... I KNOW what you want and I KNOW what you are going through. Hang in there!



Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.